After walking through so much, I didn’t learn little. At the end of the day, it’s not what we know that mattered; but what and how we do what we know we have to do, and this is what really mattered. And it’s having the guts, the motivation and the determination that really makes it happen.

It’s the guts that lead us to start our dance around this central entity, but it’s the motivation that will carry us through. And it’s also the determination to say “no!” to the setbacks that we face on our way.

But is that all? Folklore claims that it takes two hands to clap, humans then invented drums. But should one man single-handedly drum it all up, and bear the weight and tension of the reverberating straps of the drum that hooks itself so tightly around our very own necks?

i'm talking about relationships of course... as guys, are we so intangible to starting a relationship? why must the start of every relationship be a test of a man's guts, a man's will and (a recent trend), creativity???

would getting in love be another natural selection process, such that the most creative, the most lively, the best of the best get attached to a girl... and the rest gets discarded, being bachelors... for life...